davedudie
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Post by davedudie on Apr 24, 2016 2:51:19 GMT
i play 99% girls so i've got lots of little anecdotes. i'm not sure they're actual legit serious sexism, but w/e. dares u to list some if u can bc a lot of the time ppl say this stuff vaguely (which makes sense bc its literally ALL OVER might as well quote entire paragraphs + uncomfortable to relive/explain) but its difficult for others to learn from and recognize on their own i guess. like negging. bluh bluh huge feminist also imnosey
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hanka
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Post by hanka on Apr 24, 2016 3:20:59 GMT
davedudie oh, you know. posts sfw horror prompt about rose summoning eldritch creatures, but what's her cup size, god forbid i forget to give my partner THAT vital information. i had a responder that went into visceral, skin-crawling detail about how disgusting their nasty monster looked, but i respond with rose being a little bit dead and rotten and suddenly it's all 'ohh can she be better actually.' no shut up she'll be necrotic and disgusting if i want, what do you care, it's in sfw, shut up. posts no-game au focused on space alien politics with vriska, but first question every damn connect i get is am i looking to ship. i have an embarrassing amount of pirate vriska prompts, and every damn one of them i have been asked am i looking to ship. fam, a bitch is working her ass off tryna stay friendly with the french crown while also maintaining her scary scofflaw take-no-prisoners reputation, a bitch does not have time for a serious and committed relationship. a bitch doesn't even have time for a one-night stand! she's busy! let her live! contrast this with my two (2) dirk prompts, on which i never ever even once get bullshit bunkass questions like that. there, it's actually about the plot. who'd'a thunk. :')
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Post by cherubplaynonsense on Apr 24, 2016 3:34:49 GMT
i used to play jane very frequently and the number of times my partners and i have long, beautiful discussions about jane's smarts and her wit and stuff ooc, then by the time we get to anything vaguely romantic she's reduced to her body parts. the characters could be totally great together, like most of the time it's a dave, and he'll be really attracted to her laughter or her wit, but then like, suddenly it turns into "and she didn't look too bad from the back, either. he always was an ass man." at the end of such gorgeous prose about her worth and value as a human being??? like WHY. i get that she's physically attractive to dave, but why do you have to say it like that, and why is it a 100% necessary component of all of their intimate or romantic interactions!? seriously! every date, every time they made out, every single time anything ever happened to advance their romance, dave had to make some snide end-of-the-paragraph-joke about part of her body, or how she'd look going down on him, etc.
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davedudie
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Post by davedudie on Apr 24, 2016 6:21:00 GMT
fucK THIS SO MUCH THIS IS BEAUTIFULLY PUT AND IT IS ABSOLUTELY EVERYWHERE WHY ARE THEY SO DESPERATE TO OBJECTIFY LIKE ITS LIFE OR DEATH THAT PERSON PUT EFFORT INTO THAT AND ITS NOT EVEN AN IC THING TO SAY LET ALONE REMOTELY OK
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terepy
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Post by terepy on Apr 24, 2016 16:59:21 GMT
okay i need to bring up another point which has been getting my goat let me just pop in here and make a second post instead of editing my first because this is a problem near and dear to my heart.
why does every monstergirl have to look and act like that male power fantasy hentai-ass game (you know the one) and like have to have anatomy that DOESNT mess up the conventionally attractive human figure or, god forbid, cause the character to not have titties. like even if theyre a reptile that has no reason WHATSOEVER to have mammalian breasts it might as well be a crime against all thats good and proper to actually think through a complicated design with strange biology that actually SEEMS monstrous or nonhuman rather than just another objectified sexy woman with horns/cat ears/tiny animal additions
thats not even to mention the fact that the SECOND you make monsters actually do monstrous things (ie: dragons cooking and eating entire animals, being highly territorial and hostile, etc.), the other person is AGHAST that this powerful creature, one that in the au is FEARED for its ferocity, isnt just willing to jump on peoples bones or even worse force themselves on their character. ive had so many rps that the other person has just disconnected from me the moment ive described my monster character because they werent 'sexy' enough or were too 'inhuman' and tbh im glad i didnt have to waste my good monsters on them but GOD i just need an actual monster rp that revolves around like legitimately trying to study and understand the other species instead of just revisiting some tired smut plotline
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skaia
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Post by skaia on Apr 25, 2016 20:27:29 GMT
okay i need to bring up another point which has been getting my goat let me just pop in here and make a second post instead of editing my first because this is a problem near and dear to my heart. why does every monstergirl have to look and act like that male power fantasy hentai-ass game (you know the one) and like have to have anatomy that DOESNT mess up the conventionally attractive human figure or, god forbid, cause the character to not have titties. like even if theyre a reptile that has no reason WHATSOEVER to have mammalian breasts it might as well be a crime against all thats good and proper to actually think through a complicated design with strange biology that actually SEEMS monstrous or nonhuman rather than just another objectified sexy woman with horns/cat ears/tiny animal additions thats not even to mention the fact that the SECOND you make monsters actually do monstrous things (ie: dragons cooking and eating entire animals, being highly territorial and hostile, etc.), the other person is AGHAST that this powerful creature, one that in the au is FEARED for its ferocity, isnt just willing to jump on peoples bones or even worse force themselves on their character. ive had so many rps that the other person has just disconnected from me the moment ive described my monster character because they werent 'sexy' enough or were too 'inhuman' and tbh im glad i didnt have to waste my good monsters on them but GOD i just need an actual monster rp that revolves around like legitimately trying to study and understand the other species instead of just revisiting some tired smut plotline Shoves all of my monstergirl prompts behind my backI think what it boils down to is that a lot of people are just looking for smut when they see monstergirls in nsfw/e. I can't say much as someone who's usually on the opposite end, but I see where you're coming from, there is a lack of distinctly monstrous looking/acting monstergirls as opposed to those with an abnormally high sex drive. I'm also actually really curious as to what game you're talking about. I don't see the words monstergirl and male power fantasy close to each other often.
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Post by Nepeta on Apr 26, 2016 3:03:19 GMT
If people come into my post apoc. aus, and get grumpy about me mentioning Nepeta's a fuzzy lil princess. I'mma scream. She doesn't got time to shave her legs. She's too busy hunting mutated critters for dinner and fucking up bandits.
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terepy
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Post by terepy on Apr 26, 2016 16:21:25 GMT
Shoves all of my monstergirl prompts behind my backI think what it boils down to is that a lot of people are just looking for smut when they see monstergirls in nsfw/e. I can't say much as someone who's usually on the opposite end, but I see where you're coming from, there is a lack of distinctly monstrous looking/acting monstergirls as opposed to those with an abnormally high sex drive. I'm also actually really curious as to what game you're talking about. I don't see the words monstergirl and male power fantasy close to each other often.
ooooooh boy this is a dangerous path and i apologize ahead of time for the route im going but here it goes! gonna try my best to explain though im not sure if it will make sense or if its just me being angry for the sake of being angry so let me know if this makes absolutely no sense but theres that like... monstergirl encyclopedia site that everyone and their brother seems to use for monster prompts and honestly i dont mind the designs that much. i mean sure they have the big anime tiddies and the design certainly intends to emphasize that particular asset, but its not like theyre absolutely terrible. not my cup of tea, since, again, i like monsters being a little more ferocious/scary. BUT the biggest complaint i have with it is that there was a prompt with a link to that and i was interested in playing it because i was starting to like the concept of monstergirls so theres me looking into how i can characterize terezi as a fearsome dragon girl (with a bit of a less sexualized design, in my head) when i read about the actual personalities on this site and JEEZ that made me incredibly uncomfortable. all i remember is that dragons were supposed to be this strong powerful warrior types, BUT this site made sure to go into how they could be tamed and pacified by a strong, capable male mate and that they become some tsundere bs where they basically just become some weird dragon wife who became essentially submissive around a strong male. and THATS why i say 'male power fantasy' because could it be any more obvious? like strong, powerful, fearsome woman tamed by male sexuality alone i immediately closed the prompt and blacklisted everything that linked to that encyclopedia because it just skeeved me out hard and that seems to be like the vast majority of monstergirl-esque prompts
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Post by davedudie on Apr 26, 2016 17:32:29 GMT
why does every monstergirl have to look and act like that male power fantasy hentai-ass game (you know the one) and like have to have anatomy that DOESNT mess up the conventionally attractive human figure or, god forbid, cause the character to not have titties. like even if theyre a reptile that has no reason WHATSOEVER to have mammalian breasts it might as well be a crime against all thats good and proper to actually think through a complicated design with strange biology that actually SEEMS monstrous or nonhuman rather than just another objectified sexy woman with horns/cat ears/tiny animal additions thats not even to mention the fact that the SECOND you make monsters actually do monstrous things (ie: dragons cooking and eating entire animals, being highly territorial and hostile, etc.), the other person is AGHAST that this powerful creature, one that in the au is FEARED for its ferocity, isnt just willing to jump on peoples bones or even worse force themselves on their character. ive had so many rps that the other person has just disconnected from me the moment ive described my monster character because they werent 'sexy' enough or were too 'inhuman' skaia too sorry for butting in again but THIS TOO like i hope this is ok to add,, that if u are going for smut, the whole concept that a monstergirl cannot be sexy unless shes got the boobs and the ass? like isnt the whole appeal of monstergirl supposed to be the monster part?? y do they have to resemble human pornstars?? if youre in it for the boobs and ass, dont even bother w the monster part? get a blow up doll idk? personally its all about the teeth and the texture of skin and claws and shit like that for me thats hot like...the xeno stuff. and thats not even mentioning how leagues more interesting the rp would b if the monster quirks interacting-wise would be explored instead of just fuckin a fleshlight. boobs arent even meant to b that sexy those... are...primarily for the babies lmao y cant they be more creative will i get hate for this kinksham im rly not unbiased kick me off my own thread
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Post by skaia on Apr 26, 2016 21:26:40 GMT
ooooooh boy this is a dangerous path and i apologize ahead of time for the route im going but here it goes! gonna try my best to explain though im not sure if it will make sense or if its just me being angry for the sake of being angry so let me know if this makes absolutely no sense but theres that like... monstergirl encyclopedia site that everyone and their brother seems to use for monster prompts and honestly i dont mind the designs that much. i mean sure they have the big anime tiddies and the design certainly intends to emphasize that particular asset, but its not like theyre absolutely terrible. not my cup of tea, since, again, i like monsters being a little more ferocious/scary. BUT the biggest complaint i have with it is that there was a prompt with a link to that and i was interested in playing it because i was starting to like the concept of monstergirls so theres me looking into how i can characterize terezi as a fearsome dragon girl (with a bit of a less sexualized design, in my head) when i read about the actual personalities on this site and JEEZ that made me incredibly uncomfortable. all i remember is that dragons were supposed to be this strong powerful warrior types, BUT this site made sure to go into how they could be tamed and pacified by a strong, capable male mate and that they become some tsundere bs where they basically just become some weird dragon wife who became essentially submissive around a strong male. and THATS why i say 'male power fantasy' because could it be any more obvious? like strong, powerful, fearsome woman tamed by male sexuality alone i immediately closed the prompt and blacklisted everything that linked to that encyclopedia because it just skeeved me out hard and that seems to be like the vast majority of monstergirl-esque prompts That might have been one of my prompts you looked at. I started linking the MGE thing for ideas in others and the habit kind of stuck. It's not something I've spent time looking at just because there are SO MANY entries, but that was why I put it there because there were so many to choose from. I normally only looked at the specific entries people linked me and most of them didn't have stuff about being tamed by dudes. Dragons seemed to have the short end of the stick there. Never realized how much it bothered people but now that I think about it linking list probably would lead people to believe I only wanted monsters from that site. orz Honestly when people take my monstergirl prompts it's about 50/50 with people who take monsters from that list and those who have their own ideas, but I've become kind of numb to it unless its one that I see all the time. (Surprisingly, I haven't gotten an mge dragon once across any of the prompts...) skaia too sorry for butting in again but THIS TOO like i hope this is ok to add,, that if u are going for smut, the whole concept that a monstergirl cannot be sexy unless shes got the boobs and the ass? like isnt the whole appeal of monstergirl supposed to be the monster part?? y do they have to resemble human pornstars?? if youre in it for the boobs and ass, dont even bother w the monster part? get a blow up doll idk? personally its all about the teeth and the texture of skin and claws and shit like that for me thats hot like...the xeno stuff. and thats not even mentioning how leagues more interesting the rp would b if the monster quirks interacting-wise would be explored instead of just fuckin a fleshlight. boobs arent even meant to b that sexy those... are...primarily for the babies lmao y cant they be more creative will i get hate for this kinksham im rly not unbiased kick me off my own thread That's a good point. Some people just don't get creative and they'll take what they can find on the internet . Obviously I'm kinkshaming u right now don't come near me unless your monstergirl looks like this.
For real though I think its cool to see what people come up with. Hell the last person to connect to the last one I put up asked to play a werewolf-esque Roxy and provided a picture. (It's SFW)
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davedudie
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Post by davedudie on Apr 29, 2016 9:51:17 GMT
when someone connects to ur femdom prompt just to tell you its misandrist :^) *screaming w mouth closed*
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Post by nukacherry on Apr 29, 2016 14:13:46 GMT
when someone connects to ur femdom prompt just to tell you its misandrist :^) *screaming w mouth closed* how
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hanka
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Post by hanka on Apr 29, 2016 15:41:00 GMT
when someone connects to ur femdom prompt just to tell you its misandrist :^) *screaming w mouth closed* howum, clearly because it's not featuring someone's monster dong as a central theme. gosh.
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Post by nukacherry on Apr 29, 2016 23:14:34 GMT
um, clearly because it's not featuring someone's monster dong as a central theme. gosh.Ohhhh fuck you're right shit i need to check my vagina owning privileges i forgot that all appropriate porn must focus on the penor and worshipping it thanks hanka what would i do without you to keep us in check. The world may never know.
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